estate planning circle
so your family won't be left with a mess...
8 weeks to get your whole life organized for the people you love — without the $5K legal bill.
We’ll guide you through every decision
You’ll finally feel like your estate (and life) is organized
You’ll leave with a system your loved ones can actually use
Secure your spot!
The Aftermap Estate Planning Circle is an 8-week guided cohort where you make every critical decision about your estate—from healthcare to money to family to digital organization—and walk away with a complete plan ready to execute.
So your loved ones aren’t left with a mess.
Fall 2026, dates TBA
Sessions every Tuesday @ 5pm PT // 8pm ET for 90 mins.
All calls recorded.
Want to know what estate planning actually involves?
Download our guide on the 10 critical decisions you need to make regarding your estate.
Here's what happens when you don't get organized.
If you were to pass away unexpectedly, your loved ones would be left sorting through the financial and logistical aftermath — every account, password, policy, and decision would become their problem. And they’d be doing this while in a state of extreme grief.
Without a plan, they face:
Impossible medical decisions, guessing what you'd want
Being locked out of accounts they need to pay bills
Kids, pets, or dependents stuck in limbo while courts decide
18+ months with assets frozen in probate — even with a will
An avalanche of admin that takes over their life for months
Legal bills costing $300–900/hour to sort through preventable chaos
Over 60% of millennials and Gen X have no estate plan.
No will. No trust. Nothing.
We make sure you’re not one of them.
Is this you?
One or two hours with a lawyer covers your basic legal documents — but it doesn't cover the rest of what you and your loved ones actually need.
What makes this different…
You're not the problem. The process is.
We're Danielle (death doula) and Olivia (ex-IDEO experience designer)—a wife-and-wife team who built this program because we needed it ourselves.
When we sat down to get our own affairs in order, we realized: nobody helps you connect all the pieces to make all the actual decisions. Nobody helps you organize the 100+ accounts, subscriptions, and passwords that make up a modern life. Nobody helps you figure out how to talk to your family about any of it.
So we built the system we wished existed. One that helps us while we live, and will help our loved ones when we die.
You know you need to do this.
You just keep putting it off.
Not because you're irresponsible — but because it's a lot, and there's always something more urgent. That's why the Estate Planning Circle works: you get structured support, real accountability, and people doing it alongside you.
Who is this for?
Here’s how the estate planning circle works:
Every decision, guided.
Not:
“Fill in this blank with your healthcare proxy"
But instead:
"Here's how to think about medical interventions, here's what matters, and here's how to decide what you actually want."
Your entire life, organized.
Where are the utility accounts? What's on autopay? Which credit cards exist? Where's the mortgage info, the car title, the kids' medical records?
We help you document everything so your partner or family can keep things running—not fall apart.
Legal documents, ready to go.
With every decision already made and everything organized, completing your will, trust, healthcare directives, and power of attorney becomes a few hours of paperwork — not months of agonizing and thousands of dollars of legal bills.
Use our partner services or your own attorney. Either way, you'll know exactly what you want, with a system you own.
Join the fall cohort
Step 1:
Join the next cohort
Reserve your spot and meet your small group (max 20 people).
You'll have live sessions, guided work time, and a crew of people doing this alongside you.
Step 2:
Make every decision. Organize everything.
Over 8 weeks, we walk you through healthcare wishes, guardianship, finances, digital accounts, family conversations, and the admin that keeps your household running. You'll have a complete, organized system your family can actually use.
Step 3:
Finalize your legal documents
With every decision already made, completing your will, trust, and directives takes hours, not months. Use our partner services or your own attorney — either way, you'll know exactly what you want.
After 8 weeks, you'll have…
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Every account, policy, subscription, and password organized in a system your people can actually access.
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Healthcare wishes, guardianship, asset distribution, digital estate — decided and documented.
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Frameworks for talking to your partner, your parents, your family — so no one is left guessing.
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Every answer ready. Completing your will, trust, and directives becomes a matter of hours, not months.
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Life changes. Your plan should too — without calling a lawyer (and paying them a lot of money) every time.
What people are saying
“When my parent passed, I didn’t get to just grieve. I had to do it alongside the full-time job of settling their estate.
It took me three years to wade through the mess they hadn’t organized.
And I decided I would never, ever do that to my partner or my kids.
I know this stuff is hard, but it’s so important. And having a guide, and a crew, to do this with, makes all the difference.”
— Alex M.“This process is a million times easier for the people you will leave behind when you prepare in advance—have a will, a trust, and make your wishes known.
It makes all the difference.
Otherwise, it is absolute, terrible, horrible chaos.”
— Nora T.“I always assumed estate planning was for older people with traditional families.
But my partner and I aren't married — and without a plan, she wouldn't have the legal right to make my medical decisions or access any of our accounts.”
— Mel P. Take advantage of our founding cohort pricing…
With the Estate Planning Circle, we provide what most lawyers don’t: down-to-earth guidance, usable, modern systems, and a plan you actually understand.
So that when it’s time to finalize your legal documents, everything’s ready to go and the legal bill won’t singe your eyebrows off. We’ll connect you with trusted legal partners to execute your documents for under $600.
Estate Planning Circle
$497
Join 8 weeks of live, guided sessions
Alternate between “Learning Sessions” — where we help you understand the decisions and the process, and “Working Sessions” — supported heads down time for you to get it done, with live help.
Make every decision, organize every account.
Leave with templates, frameworks, and a digital system you own.
Do this alongside a small group of peers.
Get direct access to the Aftermap team throughout.
And have a good time with good people.
*Refer a friend who joins and you both get $50 back. Email hello@aftermap.co for your code.
**The cost of the Estate Planning Circle covers one family unit — so bring whoever you're making decisions with.
A will alone isn’t enough.
In most cases, even with a will, your loved ones will be left to navigate a long, complicated, and expensive legal process called probate.
Not to mention the admin avalanche that will take over their lives.
Protect your loved ones by getting your affairs in order with our Estate Planning Circle.
Your 8-week roadmap
Don’t pay a lawyer $600/hour for a system you can’t easily update, and organizational work you can do yourself.
With the Estate Planning Circle, we provide what most lawyers don’t: down-to-earth guidance, usable, modern systems, and a plan you actually understand.
So that when it’s time to finalize your legal documents, everything’s ready to go and the legal bill won’t singe your eyebrows off.
What it costs to get all your estate planning done:
Estate Planning Circle: $497
8 weeks of guided support.
Live instruction + work sessions.
Templates, frameworks, and accountability to actually finish.
And a good time with good people.
Complete your will, trust, healthcare directives, and power of attorney through our partner services (like Trust & Will).
Takes a few hours once everything's organized.
**pay on your own, with a discount
Legal Documents: $199 - $599
Compare that to the $5,000 you’d spend on an estate attorney, who’d ask you questions but wouldn’t…
help you organize your digital and financial life, guide you through your decisions, give you systems you can own and update, or support you in having hard family conversations.
Total investment: $696 - $1096
Secure your spot!
Get your estate planning done in 8 weeks—with support
Stop carrying around that latent anxiety and kicking this important can down the road.
Instead, get your estate fully handled—with a plan you understand and that your family can actually use.
Get the support lawyers don't provide and the clarity DIY tools can't give you—without the $5K price tag.
💸 money back guarantee💸
We know better than most that life is unpredictable. So there’s a full refund up to the first day of the circle should your life circumstances change.
Frequently asked questions
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We built this specifically for people whose situations don't fit the "traditional" estate planning mold. Danielle and Olivia are a queer married couple building their own family, and we've seen firsthand how outdated most planning resources are.
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The Estate Planning Circle is for anyone who wants to get their life organized and their decisions made — regardless of net worth, family structure, or how complicated things feel right now. The decision-making and organization work is the same whether you have $50K or $5M in assets.
Where it may differ: if you have complex business ownership, significant wealth requiring specialized tax structures, special needs trusts, or ongoing legal disputes, you'll likely need a specialized attorney to finalize your legal documents rather than our partner services. The program still gets you fully organized and decision-ready — you'll just need a different path for the legal execution piece.
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This isn't just for people with kids or significant wealth. If you have bank accounts, a 401k, a car, digital accounts, and people you care about—you need a plan. We work with everyone from 30-year-olds with student loans to 55-year-olds managing aging parents.
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No. We start from wherever you are—whether you haven't thought about this at all, already have a will but nothing else organized, or tried an online service and got stuck halfway through. That's exactly why the cohort format works. We'll guide you through every decision and help you organize everything before you touch any legal forms.
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A will is a great start — but it's only one piece. A will alone doesn't organize your digital life, document your healthcare wishes, set up systems your executor can follow, or help you have the hard conversations with your family. And in most cases, a will still means your estate goes through probate — a long, expensive legal process that can tie things up for 18+ months. We walk you through how to avoid that, and help you build the full picture around what you already have.
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Our Estate Planning Circle helps you make all the decisions—what you want, who you trust, how things should work. Once you've done that work with us over 8 weeks, you'll be ready to complete your actual legal documents (will, healthcare directives, power of attorney, trust if needed) through our trusted online partners like Trust & Will or Willing. This costs under $600 and takes about an hour once you know what you want. We don't execute the legal work—we make sure you're 100% confident in your choices before you pay a service to finalize the documents.
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For most people, no. If you have straightforward wishes and assets under $1-2M, online legal services work great—once you know what to put in them. That's what we help with. If your situation is highly complex (complicated business ownership, significant wealth, special needs trusts), we'll let you know when an attorney makes sense and help you prepare for that conversation so you're not paying $600/hour to figure out your decisions.
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Online services give you forms to fill out. We help you make the actual decisions those forms are asking for—like who should be your healthcare proxy, and what end-of-life care you want.
We help you think about and design the hard conversations with your family that end-of-life planning entails.
And we give you a digital system to keep everything organized, so you and your people know where it is, what it is, and can easily update it as life evolves.
Then you'll use an online service to execute the legal docs, confident in every choice.
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About 90 minutes for the live call each week, plus 1-2 hours on your own.
We alternate learning weeks and work weeks—we help you understand the decisions and processes one week, then apply it the next.
You're never trying to do everything at once.
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The program works for both. Many participants are doing their own planning AND helping aging parents.
We cover how to have these conversations and what you need to know to support someone else's planning.
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No. You share only what you're comfortable with.
Many people find it helpful to hear others' situations, but you're never required to disclose specifics.
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Every call is recorded and available within 24 hours. You can also ask questions in our group chat between sessions. You’ll have everything you need to do this asynchronously.
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You'll walk away with every decision documented, your digital life organized, and clear instructions for your family.
You'll also have everything you need to complete your legal documents through our partner services (wills, healthcare directives, trusts).
Let’s chat!
Have questions? Want to see if the estate planning circle is right for you? Schedule a free 20-minute call to explore how we can support you.
Or reach out to us at hello@aftermap.co